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Mental harassment and financial insecurity after marriage

Hi all, can some one help me regarding my problem. I am married for 7 months now. It was a arranged marriage. My husband prior to marriage he told he was a manager in a private firm. But I have noticed he is not working after couple of months of marriage. However, he joined a private firm as a...

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Hi all, can some one help me regarding my problem. I am married for 7 months now. It was a arranged marriage. My husband prior to marriage he told he was a manager in a private firm. But I have noticed he is not working after couple of months of marriage. However, he joined a private firm as a salesman. He was hiding the fact that he is a salesman and later I have come to know(with low salary). I didn't say anything, as I don't want to degrade him. His father passed away when he is 15 years old. From then he started working (his mother supported him financially (like tailoring). He have two sisters. One is married to a rich person (it's a love marriage).And a younger sister is with us(who is yet to be married). She is a recent graduate just started working. I am a finance professional working in an mnc bpos from past 5 years. I work in night shifts and my husband and MIL know this. My problem is with both my Husband and mother in law. They are very stingy. They treat me like outsider. My husband told me he have some loans(due to our marriage) to pay. and I give him my salary without any questions. I asked him a 10% of my salary for my monthly expenses. But he refused and gives me 6 %. It was all good earlier, when my husband and younger sis in law not working (Couple of months) after my wedding. I was the only one working for first two months. Now, everything is changed. My MIL taunts me for everything. She claims that I don't do any work at home. (It was agreed that she will handle the working days and I need to help her on weekends) I got adjusted to a lot of rituals at my in laws place. MIL started torturing me for not folding the clothes(very silly reasons). My husband always supports his mother. She will about at my husband for my problems. He will call me when am at work and shouts at me. Im a too sensitive woman. I start crying at office. This has become a regular drama, I told mil to tell me directly anythjng. She only speaks third degree language. Some words I don't understand. Now, she started calling me when am at work and shouts at me and use all third degree slangs towards my parents also. Due to this mental torture, I could not perform well and now management decided to cancel my employment. MIL is not bothered about this. My husband needs money so he always force me to work( his loans and his sister marriage) etc. And he will never admit that I support him financially. They refused for maid also when I asked them. Again the same story got repeated, she shouted at him. He shouted at me stating becasue of u I feel like dying. For god sake why did I married u and all. I told him I will go to my mom's place for some days. She rejected. Then my father came and took me to my mom's place. It's been two weeks am at my mom's place. He did not contact me. I only called him, then he responded very vague. He have Lot of influence of her mother on him. She just say everything negative about me and my parents. They scold me and my parents for not fulfilling their financial needs ( other than dowry). They want in form of gifts for every occasion. Which my parents cannot afford. What should I do in this situation. I had a lot of dreams about my married life, now all my feelings are dead. I cannot buy anythjng what I like, I need their approval what I should wear n all. I really feel like breaking my wedding. My parents are saying that's it destiny you will have to handle. Talk to your husband. But he do t listen to me if I ask him to come out n live separately. Since he is the only son, mil and sister in law cannot live by themselves. (Need a man at home). Any way to explain to my mil and husband To consider me as a human being. And live the way I like to.

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Asked at November 18, 2017
Default avatar Amol Jaiswal
last answered 3 days ago
Husband not interested in physical relations since beginning of marriage

It's been 2 years that I am married. My husband doesn't have the urge or desire to have sex ever since marriage. We always asked for consultationfor several doctors , but he doesn't listen. even his parents said you can't give birth to ababy. I am extremely frustrated, don't know if or not to...

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It's been 2 years that I am married. My husband doesn't have the urge or desire to have sex ever since marriage. We always asked for consultation for several doctors , but he doesn't listen. even his parents said you can't give birth to a baby. I am extremely frustrated, don't know if or not to file a divorce. I am even doubting his sexual orientation. It is like two people doing routine chores at home. Pls advice me.

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Asked at November 16, 2017
Bb8dd9ebb9120adbd816631e021fa0949cd1c762 KISHAN DUTT Retd Judge
last answered 7 days ago
Marriage broke but fiance stayed together as a couple before cancellation of marriage

Hello, Igot engaged in April, 2017 after my engagement my fiance stayed with me ( without knowing my family) but his family knows everything that he is staying with meas he does't have any job. Isupport him just becauseof my parent's reputation in my family. but if Isay anything to do some work...

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Hello, I got engaged in April, 2017 after my engagement my fiance stayed with me ( without knowing my family) but his family knows everything that he is staying with me as he does't have any job. I support him just because of my parent's reputation in my family. but if I say anything to do some work or finding out the job he left my room 3 times even once in a night he tried to do suicide as well. I was scared that night. so I decided to call my mother in law to come Delhi ( in my room ) to solve the situation but she react very normal with him but for me a big question was there how can she behaved like that. so I decided to do a mistake my self to check my mother in law . Does she behave with me in same way or she accepts my sorry as she accepted her son's sorry. I got drunk and came back to room after my office as expected my mother in law and my fiance created a big scene in front of my family. I opened everything in front of my family, what is going on with me and I was quite just because of my father's reputation. My father decided to cancel that marriage and they are agree with that even my fiance as well. Now what about my life he stayed with me as a husband what should I do? please guide.

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Asked at November 15, 2017
Bb8dd9ebb9120adbd816631e021fa0949cd1c762 KISHAN DUTT Retd Judge
last answered 7 days ago
Cheated by boyfriend who promised to marry

Sir, Ihave been cheated by a guy who promised to marry me even we married unofficially but my phone got lost so I don't have proof regarding marriage but Ido have proof of love relationship with photos andvideos even Ido have some message screen shot of promising to marry. That guy is devar of my...

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Sir, I have been cheated by a guy who promised to marry me even we married unofficially but my phone got lost so I don't have proof regarding marriage but I do have proof of love relationship with photos and videos even I do have some message screen shot of promising to marry. That guy is devar of my cousin and my cousin who got to know about relation she spoiled my image everywhere in his family even in our family..and now that guy is refused to marry me saying that your character is not good can I file a case against him under which circumstances?

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Asked at November 14, 2017
Bb8dd9ebb9120adbd816631e021fa0949cd1c762 KISHAN DUTT Retd Judge
last answered 7 days ago
Case law search

I need to find a divorce case which was ordered on 16th September 2016. Where in petitioner was Smriti Srivastava and respondent was Shohal B Khare. The case hearing was at Thane Family court please. Regards

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Asked at November 14, 2017
Default avatar AJIT HARIRAM LAKHANI
last answered about 18 hours ago
Criminal case by wife against husband and family

My wife filed civil suit initially for partition for property for her and minor child, which is in name of my parents self-acquired property. The suit got dismissed. then she filed criminal case and DVA against of my parents and myself. Could you please provide the advice to defend.

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Asked at November 13, 2017
Default avatar Sidharth Srivastava
last answered 4 days ago
Case for Husband seeking maintenance from wife under Section 125 of CrPC

pls provide me the citation under crpc 125 to get maintenance from wife, where the condition is wife is working at the post of principal in a private school and husband is unemployed and deprived from his father's property too.

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Asked at November 11, 2017
Bb8dd9ebb9120adbd816631e021fa0949cd1c762 KISHAN DUTT Retd Judge
last answered 8 days ago
Application for annulment when the marriage is not consumated

Hi.. I have applied for divorce as marriage is not consumated. I know he is an impotent. Counselling is over, my husband said okay. One year gone..But now even before the trail.. my lawyer is telling me to apply as mutual consent. But I want annulment, they cheated me. My question.. 1. Is...

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Hi.. I have applied for divorce as marriage is not consumated. I know he is an impotent. Counselling is over, my husband said okay. One year gone..But now even before the trail.. my lawyer is telling me to apply as mutual consent. But I want annulment, they cheated me. My question.. 1. Is annulment possible in my case. 2. How long will it take, already one year over. 3. If he doesn't appear, will I get annulled divorce only with my medical proof of unconsumed. 4. If he produces fake certificate what will happen.

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Asked at November 10, 2017
Default avatar Sidharth Srivastava
last answered 8 days ago
Wife wants divorce and is not letting meet daughter

My wife is working in civil court and over small issues wants Divorce.. Love marriage of 12 years and having 7 yrs daughter.. she is not letting me meet my daughter and not allowing any time spent together.. Iused to take care of daughter as she was in her office from morning to Evening...

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My wife is working in civil court and over small issues wants Divorce.. Love marriage of 12 years and having 7 yrs daughter.. she is not letting me meet my daughter and not allowing any time spent together.. I used to take care of daughter as she was in her office from morning to Evening earlier... What should I do ? I want to take care of my Daughter while wife is on the job at her office... And living separate in the same city as Wife is not allowing me to do it. Need Solution for this

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Asked at November 09, 2017
E9b2688f2b2a062e0a88c306b48ce07f6af058c0 Shuchi Agarwal
last answered 9 days ago
Prevented by inlaws to go for functions

I have been married for 25 years. Whenever I wish to join my parents or any function I have been prevented from doing so. Though I used to go and skip some. This time Iwish to go and in-laws say that I am a cook in the house and should not go. If I go stay there only. What should I do? Please...

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I have been married for 25 years. Whenever I wish to join my parents or any function I have been prevented from doing so. Though I used to go and skip some. This time I wish to go and in-laws say that I am a cook in the house and should not go. If I go stay there only. What should I do? Please advice

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Asked at November 09, 2017
Default avatar Rajaganapathy Ganesan
last answered 10 days ago
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